Wednesday, October 5, 2011

Growing Up



Ok! So life does give surprises in its own special ways. We may not be able to find them out initially, but eventually we realize that it was exactly what we have been wanting all along.  We are a bit too engrossed in our own silly lives to look beyond it. Which I feel is a little unfair to us. I mean it is something meant for us and we keep ignoring it just because we are too engrossed in searching for something that actually never exists. Too complicated, right?

But anyways, I’m just going through an awesome phase of my life. And I am so in love with it. Some “Euphoric” kinds, which actually led me to think what actually was I upto all these years?? Not that I have some kind of regrets or something. NO!! Those were indeed few of the best moments of my life. For, they were exactly how I always wanted them to be. But then all started going wrong. Happens and with everyone. So why would I be an exception? But now I feel it was all a part of growing up. A very important part in fact! A part that taught me that life is no cakewalk and all does not happen as we want it to be. We might want our life to be a fairytale, but we forget that even in fairytales, the “happily ever after” only appear after the princess has gone through a lot of ups and downs. So if the fairy tales princesses are not spared of these obstacles, we are still humans! All I lacked was a little maturity (not that I have fully acquired that now). But yes, I do feel I have grown up a little psychologically, mentally and intellectually. FINALLY!!

We might have had a very beautiful yesterday. The kinds we always wanted. But many a times, it doesn’t last. But that is no excuse not to enjoy our today and tomorrow, which you never know might be even more beautiful. All we need is a little push to come out of our cocoon and realize that life indeed is very beautiful and we can only see its real beauty by moving on, which is very easy to say and very very difficult to implement. But with time all goes well. And finally all the memories begin to make us smile rather than cry. Once this begins to happen, nothing can stop you from enjoying your today. So